Marriage

Mass Times

Sunday

7:00 AM
9:00 AM Live Stream
11:00 AM Live Stream
1:00 PM Español Transmisión en Vivo
6:00 PM LifeTeen Live Stream

 

Mon-Fri

9:00 AM

 

Tue, Thu

6:45 PM

 

Wednesday

6:00 AM

 

Saturday

10:00 AM
5:00 PM Vigil

 

Marriage FAQs & Requests

1. When can I get married at Saint Anthony’s and do we do weddings on Sundays?

Depending on availability, due to preset & scheduled Liturgical needs or school functions, our church is normally available throughout the week AFTER 5pm with the exception of Tuesday/Thursday evenings, Saturdays in the Chapel at 11:30, Saturdays in the Church at 2pm or 7:30pm. STAOP cannot celebrate weddings on Sundays.

2. Should I secure the reception venue first or the church first?

ALWAYS secure the church first! It would be a shame to get the perfect date at the perfect reception venue only to find out that your favorite church does not have that date available.

3. I am Catholic but my fiancé is not, can we still get married in the Catholic Church?

YES! When you come in for your marriage preparation you will fill out a form called a Canonical Dispensation or Permission for a Mixed Marriage. This form covers baptized non-Catholics, non-baptized persons, Catholics who have notoriously rejected the Faith and lapsed Catholics.

4. I am divorced, re-married civilly and am now looking for my Catholic church to “Bless our Marriage.” Do I need an annulment in order to be married in the Church?

YES! Call our Marriage Preparation Coordinator to make an appointment for you to meet with a Deacon in order to start the annulment process. Even if it was a civil marriage to a non-Catholic/Catholic, this marriage needs to be looked at in order to make sure that there are not any existing legal/spiritual bonds as well as for the benefit of the person looking to re-marry to make sure that they are not getting into the same kind of previous relationship.

5. What is a Convalidation?

A Convalidation is a Catholic Marriage.  A convalidation is performed when one party (or both parties) were Catholic at the time of the non-Catholic marriage ceremony (civil ceremony or non-Catholic church ceremony).

i. The couple is not married in the eyes of the church

ii. The Church is not ‘blessing’ retroactively the non-Catholic, civilly recognized marital union

iii. A new consent must be exchanged (“Is your consent to this convalidation an act of the will by which you intend to enter into a valida Catholic marriage?”)

iv. A Catholic marriage only begins with the Catholic marriage ceremony.

6. I am Catholic and my fiancé is not, can I still have a Nuptial Mass?

YES! However, there are some things to consider. If the fiancé’s family is not Catholic, it could cause some tension when it comes time to receive communion when only you can receive and your fiancé cannot.
In this situation it is suggested to do a celebration outside of Mass called a Liturgy of the Word which includes the readings, prayers, consent [vows], but not communion.

7. Can we be married in the chapel during the week?

NO. Fortunately, we are blessed with having Perpetual Adoration here at St. Anthony’s from Sunday evening through Saturday morning – which means that the Blessed Sacrament is exposed 24 hours a day with the exception of Saturday afternoon and Sunday morning. You CAN marry on Saturday in the chapel, but only after 11:30am due to 10am daily mass.

8. Can we have a priest come and marry us at our reception venue?

NO. Catholic marriage is a sacrament and so it is celebrated within the context of a sanctuary. Unless the location is a place approved by the Archdiocese of Galveston-Houston which will require a special dispensation from the Bishop or Archbishop.

9. Can a Catholic priest, not from this parish, come and marry us?

YES! Please have them contact the Marriage Preparation Coordinator so that they can facilitate the letter to the Pastor asking permission for delegation within our territory. He will need a letter of good standing from his Diocese or Superior.

Marriage Prep

At least nine months to a year before the tentative marriage date, couples should contact Elizabeth Rickard, the Clergy Assistant for formal preparation. This will allow sufficient time for preparation. Couples are asked to make only tentative wedding arrangements; no firm dates may be set until the assessment process has been completed.

 

At your initial meeting with the Clergy Assistant you will be provided with some general wedding information and begin your marriage file. The next step will be to register both the bride and groom to take an online inventory done by Prepare-Enrich. There is a one-time fee of $35 that covers both bride and groom. This inventory can be done at home. Once the Clergy Assistant receives the results of the inventory, she will call you to set up an appointment to meet with Clergy to go over the results.

Marriage Preparation Process
Elizabeth Rickard
Coordinator of Marriage & Quince Años Preparation

832-482-4112

erickard@ap.church

Engaged Couple Orientation

Preparation Of Marriage Sacrament, or POMS, was formerly called ECOS – Engaged Couples Orientation Session. This day-long workshop focuses on the sacramental preparation for couples regardless of where they plan to be married or how long they have been married. At this session we educate our couples on the Sacrament of Matrimony through various Catholic media, small groups, and testimony.

 

The class is held six times a year on a Saturday from 8:30-3:30pm. Continental breakfast and a full catered lunch is served.  Child Care is provided if needed.

Registration

Sponsor Couple

The Sponsor Couple Program provides a five evening program in which the engaged couple meets with a married couple from St. Anthony’s at a mutually agreeable time. During these meetings, the Sponsor Couple will encourage, guide, and support the engaged couple in their quest for a Christian marriage. Topics discussed include family of origin, traditions, money management, love, sexuality and intimacy, the power of couple prayer in a Christian marriage, the spirituality of marriage, God’s relationship in your marriage, essentials of a Christian marriage, and others. The goal of the Sponsor Couple program is to provide a couple-to-couple approach to marriage preparation.

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Online Marriage Preparation

This preparation was designed with the intention of helping our military personnel but has proven a wonderful tool for couples that also are living in different states or countries. We only allow our couples to use this course if they meet one of these situations:

  • A couple in the military.
  • A couple that is living in different states.
  • A couple that is living in different countries.

 

This program is delivered online, so you can experience it from different countries and time zones. Couples often use Skype or other video chat platforms for face-to-face, live interaction as they work through the course. Other couples work through the course at different times. You can do this course at your own pace!

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Enrichment Retreats

An Engaged Encounter Weekend marriage preparation program is tailored for couples who are engaged and have not been previously married. Couples are expected to stay for the entire retreat and focus exclusively on their future spouse. The weekend starts at 7 PM on Friday, and ends by 4 PM on Sunday. Cameron Retreat Center can only accommodate 32 couples per retreat so we encourage early registration. Retreats usually close 3-4 months in advance.

 

A similar program is offered in Spanish and a separate retreat for couples that have been civilly married for 6+ years and have come to the Church for a convalidation. These retreats are fewer throughout the year so we encourage early registration.

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Convalidation

Catholic Church law ordinarily requires baptized Catholics to marry before a priest or deacon. Unless they requested and received a “dispensation from canonical form”, Catholics who exchange marriage vows in the presence of only ministers from other religious traditions or authorized civic officials are not considered validly married in the eyes of the Catholic Church. Later, those couples may seek to have their union officially recognized by the Church. In technical Church terms, this is known as convalidation of a marriage. Convalidations, commonly referred to as “having a marriage blessed”, involve a relatively simple process. If you are married but not in the Catholic Church, we encourage you to take the step of having your marriage convalidated.

 

For more information about Convalidations, contact

Elizabeth Rickard
Coordinator of Marriage & Quince Años Preparation

832-482-4112

erickard@ap.church

Annulments

 

In fidelity to Jesus’ teaching, the Church believes that marriage is a lifelong bond (see Matthew 19:1-10); therefore, unless one’s spouse has died, the Church requires the divorced Catholic to obtain a declaration of nullity before marrying someone else. The tribunal process seeks to determine if something essential was missing at the moment of consent, that is, the time of the wedding. If so, the Church can declare that a valid marriage was never actually brought about on the wedding day.

 

For more information about Annulments, contact

Elizabeth Rickard
Coordinator of Marriage & Quince Años Preparation

832-482-4112

erickard@ap.church